I beeen thinking about this forum discussion for the past few days because of 2 specific recipes I've "followed" (or not) recently.
One was for a simple Coq au Vin where 2 EYB members both commented that adding a specific step would greatly improve the result. I used their idea rather than the actual recipe for that step because what they suggested made sense...so why would I ignore them and then regretfully say that I should have done it their way?? PS - they were right :)
The 2nd was for a pretty simple pan of enchiladas and as I read the recipe, everything I had on hand in my fridge, pantry & freezer was running through my head. It was a perfect time to use up garden produce (some fresh, some frozen) and various homemade things that I've made and put away to use later. The recipe, although not truely followed, gave me ideas for ratios, seasonings, add-ins and inspired a delicious little dinner for 2.
I certainly did follow the 1st recipe more closely than in the 2nd example, but the truth of the matter is that I was making both of those dishes because of the recipes found in my books (thanks EYB!) that were open on my counter while I made them.