For any newcomers, hang in there! I have been a member of EYB since the very beginning, and wouldn't remain sane without it. I live in California, have a Swedish internet protection service (AVG), and often wonder if I am being "protected" to excess. Probably not. So...wait, just wait. It will be worth it.
Jane, if it will be of help to the developers, I noticed the slowdown about 2 weeks ago. For the previous month or so, I had received a "Do Not Open" message when clicking on my pre-set task bar EYB address. I can't remember the notification words exactly, but it said something like "....this site does not have a secure https: address". I tried erasing the pre-set and re-entering it as I ignored the warning and re-entered the shortcut from the EYB site address bar. Nope. Tried Googling it and going with that instruction. Nope, same warning. Tried typing in the long URL. Nada. Then, after weeks of trying and worrying about entering the site, I ignored it and just used EYB as always. About 2 weeks ago, suddenly I could enter without a security warning...but the refresh pace was agonizingly slow (still is). Does this help?