Coming a bit late to the party too - I agree, it is the texture that makes a difference, also to some extent the shape both of the bowl and of the base - a good, wide, base that doesn't roam around the table as you grind is helpful
As a former lab scientist, brought up by 2 pharmacists, I've always used "composition" (dense unglazed ceramic) mortars with a pestle of the same material on a wooden handle; I also have a small glass lab set, which I use when I want a small amount of a crushed spice, and it looks so nice on the shelf!
The great advantages of composition are that the pestle is lighter and easier to grip than stone, which is a boon as my wrists get weaker with age, and it's virtuall indestructible - I have dropped mine, slung them in the dishwasher, all are at least 50 years old, they don't mind anything.
Really tiny scientific M&P sets are made of agate and often repurposed as decorative items, they are used for grinding samples before puting them into analytical equipment such as spectrometers.