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#1 Posted : Thursday, April 30, 2015 6:39:58 AM(UTC)
I've been wondering about this. I have about 500 cookbooks with a heavy emphasis on Italian cooking and books in both English and Italian. Some of them are beautiful and rare. I love them to pieces. It's a very interesting collection that contains tons of information about Italian culture, history and geography. I'd like to see it live on after I'm gone. But you know what they say, one person's treasured collection is another persons unwanted horde.

I used to think I'd donate it to my university library, but, sadly, the library is gradually discarding books and going with online and digital resources and "maker" spaces where students can fiddle around with laser cutters and object printers instead of reading.

Has anyone else given any thought to this, or made any decisions about where the books go when you're gone? I'd love to hear some ideas!

#2 Posted : Thursday, April 30, 2015 8:00:53 AM(UTC)

Have not thought about my books after my passing, but if my husband survives me, then I hope he passes my books to my youngest nephew who loves to cook and those books he does not want, I hope he is able to sell through ebay.

#3 Posted : Thursday, April 30, 2015 8:47:05 AM(UTC)
About a year ago my best friend's sister, who was also my good friend and cooking buddy, died suddenly. Pat was also an EYB member and avid cookbook collector. Her sister Sharon had me help her go through the cookbooks and pick out books appropriate for family members and close friends to remember Pat by. Pat wanted me to take most of her cookbooks but we had so many in common that I only took a smaller group that I did not have. As we were doing all this I had my IPad handy and logged in to Pat's EYB account. As we moved cookbooks into piles for people I deleted them from her bookshelf. Sharon contacted the local community college culinary arts program and was able to give them a printed copy of Pat's bookshelf from EYB to look over before they decided to accept the remaining collection. They were thrilled with the list and sent staff over to pick up the books. We relied heavily on EYB throughout the process and it enabled us to organize and search the books in ways that would have been impossibly time-consuming without EYB. Although it was a bittersweet weekend spent doing all this Sharon and I both ended up feeling really good that Pat's beloved cookbooks all found the right new home where they would be appreciated and continue to bring good food and memories of Pat to many people.

One quick additional note- I had Sharon print out an extra copy of Pat's remaining bookshelf that was donated to the college for her to use to document the donation for tax purposes. The IRS wants folks to make itemized records of non-cash contributions and the EYB list worked perfectly.
#4 Posted : Thursday, April 30, 2015 8:53:28 AM(UTC)
Donating them to a culinary arts program is a fabulous idea.
#5 Posted : Thursday, April 30, 2015 9:39:04 AM(UTC)
I almost forgot to mention that Sharon printed up bookplates for each cookbook that was being donated to the college that said the book was donated in memory of Pat. She affixed them inside to the first blank page.
#6 Posted : Thursday, April 30, 2015 2:55:05 PM(UTC)

hillsboroks, that's an affecting story on many levels.  It's good to know that Eat Your Books was so useful in the process of getting a new home for Pat's books.  My heart goes out to you and to Sharon; I'm sure you each miss her every day.

#7 Posted : Saturday, May 2, 2015 8:05:37 PM(UTC)

I wonder what will happen to my books.  When my youngest daughters first moved out of our home to an apartment togethe, I bought them a good all purpose cookbook.  They rolled their eyes and asked me what they were to do with it.  I said, "Well, when your beloved comes over for dinner you can cook him something nice."  They rolled their eyes again and said "He can get his own dinner."  


My daughters have learned to cook since those dark days and their beloved ones do not starve.  Yes, their amours also cook.  But still, I can see that no one loves my books like I do.  Occasionally they borrow one for a while but they give them back in immaculate condition.  Something to think about.

#8 Posted : Thursday, May 21, 2015 1:26:40 PM(UTC)

My partner and I don't have children so I tend to think a lot about where our "things" will go after we're gone. He actually has a tremendous library of about 5,000 (and growing) books on the Italian Renaissance, many collectible and rare, which he's been catalogging using book collector to keep track of. Those we may donate to the local library or college if they have an interest in the collection; it's something we definitely want to discuss with them before we get too much older so we can plan accordingly in our wills.


For my cookbooks, I don't know. My collection isn't that big but I do have books I love. My partner has some younger neices/great-neices and nephews whom I suppose will get first pick? Otherwise I'd be happy to just see them donated to a thrift store or do so myself when the time comes. I know I shop for most of my cookbooks in thrift stores to begin with so I'd be happy if they found homes with anyone who would appreciate them. Not many of my titles are necessarily historic or rare, or valuable beyond being useful to anyone who'd enjoy them.

#9 Posted : Thursday, May 21, 2015 2:58:50 PM(UTC)

There's a charity in London which provides culinary training and mentorship for people who have experienced homelessness. At the moment they are running a campaign to ask people to donate their cookbooks so their students can build up personal collections. I will probably donate mine to that sort of charity, once any family members have picked over the pile.

#11 Posted : Monday, May 25, 2015 6:08:29 AM(UTC)

This is certainly a problem, and applies of course to other collections than just books; I collect trains as well.


Let the family pick them over first, certainly, or bequeath specific items where they will be appreciated. Sell the better items on Ebay, if there is some-one prepared to do the work, and who has an idea of what is worth what.


Donate to charity sounds good, but many have no idea of value, and I've seen books sent off for pulping if they don't sell quickly; Oxfam in UK does have a better grasp of book values with specific bookshops and will collect large collections.


Public libraries seem to be in terminal decline, and most councils have no interest in extending their space-consuming back collections. A college or training scheme with a cuisine bent might be an idea, but in the end I think we have to do something ourselves before we pop off, and not leave it to others.


 


RayS


 


 

#12 Posted : Monday, May 25, 2015 11:02:12 PM(UTC)

ahh trains.  I collect books mostly and used to collect certain jewelry.  My husband collects trains - N-scale.  We are both collectors of sorts but organized one at that.